Divorced Men

Questions a Woman May Asked a Divorced Man Before She Gets Serious

When a woman wants to date a divorced man it is imperative that she ask a lot of questions from day one!  Divorced men must be willing to share the answers to these questions or they must voluntarily reveal important information right away when beginning a new relationship.  Nothing will be worse than finding out important basic information after the man and woman start to fall for each other.  Honesty upfront will always be the best policy for divorced men, even if it means losing a potential fine lady.

Some important questions for the woman thinking of dating a divorced man are below.

When was the divorce finalized?  This will reveal if the man is actually divorced yet and will tell you how long he has been divorced.  Some men will lie and claim they are divorced when they are still technically married.  Many women will not want to get mixed up with a guy who is newly divorced and trying Read more »

Dating Divorced Men - Balancing Basic Needs and Adaptation

Here is some adaptation advice for women dating divorced men.  The divorced men out there may learn something from it as well.

Divorced men are plentiful and usually a group of guys who are very eligible for dating.  A woman should not rule out dating a man simply because he is divorced since she may miss dating some very good men.  But, when dating a divorced man it is important for the woman to be adaptable to some extent.  Being completely set in your ways or too rigid will not work.  If you are that type you should not be dating a Read more »

Divorced Men Coping with Loneliness and Alcohol

Many divorced men will find themselves very lonely after a divorce and perhaps on the verge of alcoholism.   This will feed on itself as the loneliness increases the drinking and the drinking increases the Read more »

Top 10 Myths of Divorce

Men, when you are contemplating divorce you will here a lot of crap about divorce that is probably untrue.  We all have our reasons for divorcing and this blog is not about if it is right or wrong.  But men should know the facts about divorce overall when deciding what to do or how to handle it.  Here are the facts based on a long term study by a top university.  Even though it was from a divorce study in 2001 I am sure it is applicable in 2008 also.  Read more »

The Latest On Women Paying Men Alimony

The latest statistics show that about 10 percent of divorcing women now have to pay alimony to their husbands (manimony).  They wanted to be equal and they got it!  More and more women are making a higher salary than their husbands and more and more husbands are doing the majority of raising the kids.  I know I made about the same as my ex-wife but I did a slight majority of child rearing (meaning I was home alone with them more taking care of basic daily needs).

But, with alimony, it boils down to simple math, the person who earns the most has to pay the most.  All states have some sort of calculation in determining child support and Read more »